Okay. So.

There's this guy in Plattsburgh that I went on a couple of dates with and had pretty good sex with, and the relationship just didn't go anywhere because it was the summer of 2008 and my life was a wreck then and I was leaving town soon anyways.

I'm mostly positive he's not in a relationship now. Would it be bad for me to ask him if he wants to hook up at some point this weekend, or is this acceptable behavior? Like... people do have no strings attached sex sometimes, right? I could do that. With him. It might be nice. I just don't know if it's actually okay or if I'm just telling myself it's okay because I'm afraid of never getting laid again.

I mean, even if I ask, he could say no. God, that would completely wreck my self-esteem though.

I don't know. Maybe I shouldn't ask.